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Five reasons martial arts training gets better as we age

7/8/2018

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JKN Jane Hurst and SBN Caroline Hurst
JKN Jane Hurst and SBN Caroline Hurst
I recently turned 50, a significant milestone in anyone’s life. For many people, this is a time of reflection. We think about our past and what we have learned from it, as well as reflect on what the future may offer. As a black belt, instructor and school owner in the traditional Korean martial art of Kuk Sool Won™, I have been reflecting on the central role martial arts occupies in my life. What does it mean to me as I age and how do I see my future as a martial artist?
 
My passion and commitment to Kuk Sool Won™ continues to grow as I enter my 50s. There are many reasons for this. Understanding what they are keep me motivated, particularly when I am having a bad day or when I want or need to lift my energy levels.
 
Here are the top five reasons why I am passionate about Kuk Sool Won™ at age 50 and why training gets better with age.


  1. Focusing on respect: Kuk Sool Won™ is a traditional martial art, which is based in fundamental human values, like respect. This includes respect not only for others, but also for ourselves. In a world where many people feel free to abuse each other online, spread hateful messages, and turn a blind eye to suffering, it is deeply poignant to be part of a respectful environment. It connects us with each other at a fundamental human level and reminds us of our own humanity. With respect comes tolerance and compassion. These are values which make us kinder and more caring people. The fundamental value of respect grounds me as a person in what truly matters in my life, particularly as I get older, namely the importance of my relationships with other people.
  2. Making a difference: My position as a school owner and instructor enables me to make a positive difference to the lives of many people, such as the anxious five year old, or the teenager who is being bullied, or the under confident adult. By teaching them martial arts in a respectful environment, I am able to make a very real and important difference to how they perceive themselves and interact with the world around them. Every student has something to learn, whether it is developing the physical skills of self-defence or personal growth in areas such as confidence and self-belief. The influence does not end there though. By making a difference to a student, that ripples through to their relationships with other people. It is this ability to positively influence the lives of our students (and beyond) that motivates me to teach. It is extremely rewarding knowing that I can use my wealth of life experience to help others.
  3. Keeping me young: As I age, my body is physically changing. For example, I carry old injuries which limit some training activities. However, as someone who came to martial arts later in life, I am finding that even though I have hit 50, I am still getting stronger and my flexibility continues to improve. Physically, Kuk Sool Won™ is helping to keep my body young and healthy. It is also keeping my mind young. There is an extensive syllabus to be learn and concepts and philosophies to understand. The physical and mental learning never ends. Martial arts training without question helps to keep my mind and body young.
  4. Being mindful: Martial arts teaching and training is a very mindful experience for me. It helps me to stay focused in each present moment, without judging myself harshly. This is important for my physical and mental wellbeing. It increases my enjoyment and reduces my levels of stress and anxiety in all aspects of my life, not just while I am training or teaching martial arts. It also gets me out of my head and more connected with my body. As someone who writes for a living, this is refreshing.
  5. Psychological freedom: At age 50 I have probably already lived more than half of my life. Of those years that are left, some may not be good years physically and mentally, as my body and mind will  at some stage begin to deteriorate in old age. Instead of dwelling on this potentially depressing reality, martial arts focuses my mind on all of the things that I can do. I am no longer worried about whether I can kick as high or as well as the young students or get as low in my stances. I am liberated from the expectations people have of martial artists as young, dynamic, and gifted athletes. I no longer feel the need to compare myself to others. Instead, I am secure in the knowledge that I am doing something tremendously beneficial for me. This is a very powerful place to be psychologically and it enables me to really enjoy and value each moment of my life and the opportunities that are presented to me. There is a freedom that comes with this and it is life-enhancing.
 
We all have our reasons for training in martial arts. I encourage you to take the time to reflect on what they are for you. This will help to motivate you during the tough training days, as well as provide you with greater clarity of the many benefits your training brings to your life. For older martial artists, you may well find that like me, your training is getting better and more enjoyable as you age.
 
JKN Jane Hurst
First degree black belt and school owner
Kuk Sool Won™ of Onewhero
 
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Crafting can help your martial arts. Here's why.

24/7/2018

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JKN Jane Hurst learning new crafting skills
JKN Jane Hurst learning new crafting skills with Esther Salisbury from Creative Construction
We have returned to training after our two week winter break. These training breaks give us an important opportunity to rest our bodies and minds, catch up on jobs at home, and spend time with our families and friends. For me, this break has also reminded me about the importance of balance in my life and trying new things.
 
As a school owner and avid Kuk Sool Won™ martial artist, I am very focused on my teaching and training. It is easy for it to become all consuming. When I am teaching and training I think of nothing else. It is a very mindful experience. At other times, I am working with SBN Caroline on the planning, administration and marketing for our schools. I also spend much of my spare time thinking about my training. I go through my techniques and forms in my head. It is a form of meditation for me and keeps me focused and my memory sharp.
 
During these school holidays, I have devoted quite a bit of time to Kuk Sool admin. However, I also spent a few days at a craft expo. For three days, I participated in several different paper craft workshops. I made four different types of mini-journals using craft papers, cardstock and embellishments. I got my hands dirty with mixed media projects using acrylics and inks. I also made paper, velum and foam flowers. As a novice crafter, I found these workshops intense. I had to learn how to use different types of materials, follow instructions that I often didn’t understand, develop new skills, and cope with making mistakes. While it was often challenging, it was also incredibly rewarding. I not only learnt a lot, I also got to make some really neat journals which I can fill with photos and memories.
 
So why is this crafting experience relevant to my martial arts training? There are three main reasons.
  1. Humility: It reminded me of what it is like to be a novice at something that requires a lot of skill and experience. It can feel very daunting and overwhelming. I had to learn to ask for help, not just from the tutor, but also from those around me. It again reminded me of what our white belts feel when they first start their Kuk Sool training. This helps to keep me humble.
  2. Compassion: I am a perfectionist. I want to do everything well and I can be very hard on myself when I don’t feel like I have lived up to my expectations. My crafting experience grounded me. I made mistakes. My projects didn’t always turn out as well as I would have liked. I was reminded though, that it was the experience that mattered, not the end result. As well, producing something that “looks perfect” is not the objective of crafting. If we wanted a perfect product, we would buy it from a shop. It is the imperfections that make it special and unique. In martial arts, we often want to perfect our material and there is a temptation to judge ourselves harshly for our mistakes or perceived failings. I have been reminded that rather than striving for perfection, we should focus instead on improving our skills and being compassionate with ourselves when we make mistakes.
  3. Being mindful: During the crafting workshops I was completely focused on the project I was doing. By closely listening to and diligently following the tutor’s instructions, my mind was only focused on one thing at any one time. It was a very mindful experience for me and gave me a complete mental break from all of the other thoughts that inevitably fight for attention. This felt great and enabled me to improve my skill level relatively quickly. Similarly, martial arts training provides a fantastic opportunity to be mindful, by focusing only on the present moment. When we develop the skills of mindfulness in one area of our lives, it becomes easier to apply those skills to other areas. Our lives become more satisfying and less stressful as a result.
I have now returned to teaching at our martial arts schools refreshed and focused. I have honed my mindfulness skills, and been reminded of both the challenges and joys of learning something new. This experience of crafting has helped to make be a better instructor and a better martial artist.
 
JKN Jane Hurst
First degree black belt and school owner
Kuk Sool Won™ of Pukekohe and Onewhero
 
Copyright © 2018. Kuk Sool Won™ of Onewhero. All Rights Reserved.

Crafting with Esther Salisbury
Finished mini-journal and box from Esther Salisbury's class.
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Five ways to incorporate mindfulness into your martial arts practice

1/7/2018

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Mindfulness and martial arts
In my recent blogs I have been exploring the concept of mindfulness as it relates to the practice of martial arts and personal safety. Mindfulness, in essence, involves fully paying attention to the present moment, without judging or reacting to it. Living mindfully is good for our health and wellbeing. It enables us to gain control over our attention, attitude, and actions. This means we can break the cycle of worry and negative self-talk, focus on and live fully in the present moment, and act in ways that are well thought through and beneficial to us. This makes us feel happier and our life richer and more meaningful.
 
Mindfulness is not easy to achieve and does not come naturally to most of us. Our minds get flooded with thoughts and judgments, we get distracted, and we often try juggling too many things at once. We rarely completely focus our full awareness on each present moment, without any form of judgment. Mindfulness therefore, is something we need to practice.
 
Mindfulness can be practised at anytime, anywhere, and while undertaking any activity. This includes mindful movement, such as martial arts. Here are five exercises you can use to bring mindfulness into your regular martial arts practice.

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Mindfully warming up: Observe your body when you are doing your warm up. Really focus your attention and awareness on each part of your body. This includes noticing for example, the sensations in your muscles as you are stretching them. For example, are they tense, relaxed, sore, or tight? Notice your thoughts and gently let go of any judgments, such as, “I am not flexible enough” or “I’m in pain and will really struggle tonight”. If you find your mind drifting off, gently bring it back to observing your body.
 
2. Observe your breathing: Focus your awareness on the air flowing in and then flowing out. This involves observing the movement of your lungs, chest and belly, the sensations in your nostrils, and the pauses in between the in and out breaths. Observe your breath not only when stationary, but also when you are moving, such as during your kicks, techniques and martial arts forms. Experiment with lengthening your in and out breath. When doing a kihap (kiai or martial arts yell), observe the sensation of the air being forced out of your lungs.
 
3. Move mindfully: When undertaking a specific martial arts movement, such as a kick, follow the sensations in your body as you move. For example, when doing a roundhouse kick, focus on the sensations in your body when you are in your martial arts stance. Observe each change in movement as you prepare for and execute the kick. Focus on the sensations in your muscles and joints when for example, lift your leg to chamber, you pivot on the ball of your base foot, you extend your leg to kick, and when you return back to your stance. Slow each movement down and really focus on the sensations in your body.
 
4. Observe your thoughts: When doing a series of martial arts movements, such as hyung or forms in Kuk Sool Won™ (patterns in Taekwondo or kata in karate), we often have a mixture of thoughts in our head. Some of these can be quite negative, such as “I can never remember”, or “I’m never going to be good enough”, or “I can’t get low enough in my stances”. Sometimes we are on autopilot, with no conscious thoughts in our minds or with our thoughts distracted by something else. Even positive thoughts can detract from being fully present in our bodies. To achieve a better balance between our thoughts and movements, we first need to become aware of our thinking. We do this by observing our thoughts, without judging them or trying to control them. This exercise enables us to become aware of how our thoughts intrude on and distract us from fully experiencing each present moment.
 
5. Participate with awareness: Once we become aware of our thoughts, we can then begin to gently let go of those which are negative or distracting. If we pay full attention to what we are doing in each moment and let go of everything else, we are participating fully in that moment. Once you have practised observing your thoughts, try to do your forms while letting go of all those thoughts and judgments that are distracting or negative. As they come into your head, notice them and then gently let them go rather than fixate on them. Refocus on each movement. While it is not easy, over time it will come more naturally to you. It will add to your ability to improve your form and make your training much more enjoyable.
 
Mindfulness is something which needs to be practised. Try these exercises for several weeks and observe how they affect your training. You can also try finding other ways to incorporate these types of mindfulness skills into your other martial arts activities (such as breakfalls and technique training), and then into other aspects of your daily life. This will not only improve your martial arts training, but also act as a great stress reliever.
 
JKN Jane Hurst
First degree black belt and school owner
Kuk Sool Won™ of Onewhero
 
Copyright © 2018. Kuk Sool Won™ of Onewhero. All Rights Reserved.

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Mindfulness and personal safety

28/6/2018

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Mindfulness and personal safety
In my last blog I looked at the link between martial arts and mindfulness and how the mindful practice of martial arts has made my life richer and more enjoyable. Practising mindfulness enriches the quality of our lives by reducing stress and anxiety, as well as enabling us to enjoy each present moment. It also serves another very practical and important function. Living more mindfully enhances our personal safety.
 
Mindfulness is a state of being, where we are completely present and living with full awareness of each moment. By living fully in the present moment, we can give our full attention and focus to our present task or activity, whether it is sitting reading a book, taking a walk, or practising martial arts.
 
When it comes to personal safety, mindfulness enables us to become much more aware of our surroundings. How many times have we walked along a street caught up in our thoughts or looking at our phone, unaware of what is happening around us? Or driven a familiar route on autopilot while we reflect on our day or some problem that is troubling us? Our lack of awareness can expose us to risks, which could be avoided if we practised mindfulness in our daily lives and activities.
 
Here are some mindful ways we can improve our personal safety.
  • When you are walking, put your phone away and look up and around you to observe your surroundings. If you walk the same way every day to work, try observing one new thing each day. This way you will notice any changes, including those that might put you at risk.
  • If you walk to work, wear comfortable walking shoes so that you can enjoy the experience of walking, as well being better prepared if you need to flee.
  • If you cycle, become more aware of the road, traffic, and things going on around you so that you are prepared for the unexpected. This involves using your sight and sound. Listening to music will distract you from observing and being part of the present moment. This applies to running as well.
  • On public transport, take the time to look at and notice who is around you. Look up regularly from your phone or book, remove one of your headphones, and take time to observe your environment and the people in it.
  • When parking your car, look around for well lit and busy areas. When returning, particularly at night, observe your environment and have your keys ready. Distractions, such as listening to music or talking on your phone, will make you less prepared if you need to protect yourself.
  • During your working day, a more mindful approach enables you to be aware of your stress, potential conflicts, or issues that may be brewing. By taking time to observe yourself and others in the present moment, you will be able to make better decisions and manage your own stress levels.
  • When you are at a social function or event, mindfulness encourages you to observe your surroundings and the people in it. Do you know where the exits are? Are you aware of where your drink or bag are and who might have access to them? Are you aware of the people around you? Staying focused on the present moment enhances awareness of your environment and the people in it.
While mindfulness can aid your personal safety, it also keeps us in the present moment so we can fully enjoy life.

JKN Jane Hurst
First degree black belt and school owner
Kuk Sool Won™ of Onewhero
 
Copyright © 2018. Kuk Sool Won™ of Onewhero. All Rights Reserved.

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Mindfulness and martial arts

21/6/2018

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Mindfulness and martial arts
When I am practising and teaching my martial art of Kuk Sool Won™, nothing else exists. I am not thinking about what has happened in my day or what I will be doing later. I am freed from any worries that may be causing me stress. My mind is focused on one thing; what I am doing in that moment. For me, martial arts is a mindful practice.
 
Most people will have heard of mindfulness. It is the big thing at the moment with loads of books published on the subject and a huge array of mindfulness courses available. It has the potential to truly enhance a person’s quality of life if it is understood and practiced correctly. What most people may not realise though, is that a traditional martial art such as Kuk Sool Won™ incorporates and teaches the concepts and benefits of mindfulness. It is a mindful practice. To understand this relationship, we need to understand what mindfulness is and how it is relevant to the practice of martial arts.
 
Mindfulness is derived from eastern Buddhist practices where monks would meditate for hours to still and empty their mind. They saw this as a path to enlightenment, something which takes a lifetime of practice to achieve. Given its Buddhist origins, most people associate mindfulness with the concept of being completely still and of emptying our minds. However, for most of us, this is not realistic. Our lives are too busy, are minds are too filled with thoughts that we struggle to control, and we have little free time to sit and do nothing.
 
Mindfulness as it has been related to westernised culture, is based on the principle of focus rather than on emptying of our minds and as such, it doesn’t require us to meditate or to be completely still for extended periods of time. Instead, mindfulness is a state of being, where we are completely present and living with full awareness of each moment. This frees us from worry about the future or thinking about a multitude of things at once. By living fully in the present moment, we can give our full attention and focus to our present task or activity, whether it is sitting reading a book, taking a walk, or practising martial arts.
 
Being fully present and mindful not only requires us to focus solely on the task at hand, but also to do it in a non-judgmental way. This involves gently letting go of the negative self-talk and the judgments we make about ourselves, such as “I’m not doing this well enough” or “I will never be good enough”.
 
When I first started practising martial arts, I would become distracted by my thoughts and self-judgments. I would reflect on my day during the warm up and think about what I would be having for dinner or doing tomorrow. I would also have a frequent internal dialogue on all of the things I was doing wrong or not good at. I would criticise myself for not being good at kicks, or not remembering my forms, or not getting my techniques right.
 
As I progressed in my training, this began to change and I am now much more mindful in my training and teaching. For example, instead of thinking about my day, I now focus on my body and how it feels during the warm up. This is the time when I connect with and prepare for my training and the class I am teaching. When I am training, I do it with awareness and focus on what I am doing. While I am aware of how well I am performing it, I rarely criticise myself now. Instead, my awareness provides me with important information which I can use to help me improve. I am also not thinking about what I will be doing next. Instead, I am focused on that present moment. There is a connection between my body and mind, in each moment of my training, which makes it a much more enjoyable experience. It reduces my stress rather than adding to it. This flows through to my teaching, enabling me to give my students my full attention and the best teaching experience I can.
 
Martial arts training has taught me how to be fully in the present moment, in a non-judgmental way. While I am not able to replicate this at all times, in all aspects of my life, it does have a flow on effect by encouraging me to be more present and aware, as well as less judgmental throughout my day. My life is richer and more enjoyable as a result.
 
JKN Jane Hurst
First degree black belt and school owner
Kuk Sool Won™ of Onewhero
 
Copyright © 2018. Kuk Sool Won™ of Onewhero. All Rights Reserved.
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    Caroline is a 5th degree black belt and Jane is a 2nd degree black belt in the traditional Korean martial art of Kuk Sool Won™ . They run 2 Kuk Sool Won™ martial arts schools in New Zealand.

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